She’s in-between right now.
“Your blog is always a breath of honest, heartfelt, fresh air. It’s one of the few that comes to my personal inbox.”
– From reader Keith C.
A Donkumentary: Notes from the In-Between
In 2015, I began this ‘Donkumentary’ as a guide for transitioning from city life to rural living. What started with a sweet, precious, most perfect donkey named Bunny evolved into a deeper exploration of mental health, chronic illness, and personal growth.
Life has since taken unexpected turns—leaving the farm, embracing new roles, and navigating the complexities of chronic illness. Now, as a school librarian and published author, I continue to share stories that resonate with change, resilience, and the beauty found in life’s in-between moments.
Through writing, gardening, and art, I aim to break stigmas and connect with others on similar journeys. Whether you’re here for tales of donkeys, reflections on mental health, or simply seeking a shared human experience, welcome.
10 years later, and it’s all changed…quite literally, all of it.
Did you know: I’ve also published two children’s books, “Tink the Bravest Donkey,” and “Will You Be My Val-Equine?” I love doing author visits at schools and libraries! If you’re interested in learning more, send me an email: adonkumentary (at) gmail dot com.
“I’m sure we all have our anxiety or other hidden mental issues of guilt, fear, anger, whatever. You’ve put all of it in wonderful perspective. You are you and I am I. We are the same but different. Wonderfully written and beautifully thought out.“
– From Reader Patricia A.
Hi Jessica,
My name is Bonita Smith-Domkoski and I recently purchased your book, Tink, The Bravest Donkey and the cute stuffed donkey for my granddaughter while visiting a donkey rescue in Arizona.
I am a retired special ed. teacher and my husband and I are moving to Glen Rose, Texas in February.
I am planning on visiting the donkey rescue sanctuary in San Angelo, Tx. soon. I am thinking about adopting a donkey and possibly volunteer at this sanctuary, as well.
I was wondering…Is the “real” Tink still alive? Is he living with you or somewhere else? Just curious.
I love this story so much and the message that it doesn’t matter if you are different…you are still special and important! That’s what I taught all of my LD kiddos that were in my kindergarten/1st grade classes through the 30 years that I taught School.
Anyway, I thought I would contact you and tell you how much I appreciate what you’re doing to help out the precious donkeys who need a good home.
Thank you, and I look forward to hearing from you.
With kind regards,
Bonita
Hi Bonita,
Thank you so much for reaching out and for what you said. I am grateful and glad that you found my little book and have been able to share it–all proceeds go directly to the Peaceful Valley Donkey Rescue (PVDR) to support donkeys in need.
Sadly, Tink passed away several years ago. He lived with me for several happy years before his passing and I am grateful that I was able to provide him a loving and safe home for his time.
I’ve actually been to Glen Rose, Texas a few times myself, and it’s a wonderful place. Be sure to check out Dinosaur Valley State park–it’s a lot of fun!
PVDR is always looking for volunteers to help in their mission to save donkeys. Reach out to them here (donkeyrescue.org) when you’re ready and I bet they’ll be thrilled to hear from you.
Thank you again for reaching out–I’ve been neglecting my blog for some time due to personal reasons, so I apologize for taking a while to respond. Your message meant the world to me.
All the best,
Jess