Sweet Girl

For the third day in a row, it’s pouring. My grumpy donkeys huddle together in the barn as the rain batters the tin roof so loud that it rattles my bones—it must be deafening to their large ears. After piling their feeders with extra hay in lieu of typical grazing time, I pull the hood of my rain coat over my head and slide the barn door shut behind me. Like a million pellet guns, the drops strike my whole body.

The ducks scatter around the yard, rain wicking from their slick feathers. Like children in a ball pit, they bounce and play gleefully in the growing muddy puddles. The chickens on the other hand, band together in one of their coop’s nesting boxes even grumpier than the donkeys—wide, feathery, pissed off floofs. I make sure they’ve got dry food, then check to make sure none of my little infant plants are flooded, and finally check on the part of the fence that leans too far when the ground is soft and the wind is harsh before finally seeking refuge on the porch. Like a dog after a bath, I shake as much water off myself as I can. To nearly the top of my rubber boots, mud goops like raw brownie batter so I sit down on an empty milk crate — (a milk crate that I’ve had forever, although I’m not sure where it came from?) — and slide them off with a suctiony, slurpy sound. Even my socks are soaked. 

It’s too early for us to have rain this heavy and consistent, right? These are the kinds of showers that roll through with fury in the springtime. Then again, we’ve hardly had a winter down here—a single hard freeze and only 2 or 3 light ones. The summer will be a bug nightmare. This is the year I should build a bat house. Maybe today is the day I need to build a bat house. I should build my bat house. 

*Sigh* I forgot to bring towels outside with me before my morning critter-care chores and so until I’m not dripping, I’ll stay seated on the milk crate. A shiver runs down my spine and echoes through my limbs. It’s cold. Cold for East Texas, at least. Low 40s and wet. I briefly consider wrapping the grill cover around me but that’s also where I’ve seen not one, not two, but three different black widows over the past year. So nevermind. I guess black widows prefer their meals grilled?

The cold scurries up and down my spine like a mouse whose chilly feet tick-tick-tick in my limbs. The shivers follow the rhythm of my heartbeat: pangs like beating drums ripple back and forth…back and forth. A puddle of my dripping self has formed around the milk crate below me—its rounded edges creep outward with every drop, latching onto stray bits of mulch, dirt, and bird shit. The puddle grows and grows swallowing all the grit around me, the mucky water now littered with specs of dirty farm junk. 

The temperature’s become painful in it’s dampened strength and at this point, has swallowed me whole. It would make sense to end this torture by going inside regardless of the dripping, but I’ve become completely enamored with this slowly expanding pool. It just keeps growing. Of course I could end its growth at any time, I am in complete control of this particular puddle’s fate. Subsequently, I am in complete control of the fate of all the bits of ground stuffs that one by one are being sucked into the edges and then belly of the beast.

It grows and it grows and it grows because I’m allowing it to. I’m invested now. If I were to move, I’d step in it, break it, free the yucky stuff, and proceed on with my day as if this thing I’ve created never existed and then what would all the effort of sitting out here in the cold, shaking and quivering, be for? This is time I’ll never regain, a scene I could never recreate, and why? Why would I leave? For my own self-care?

For my own self-care?

My own self-care?

Self-care?

Carefully, I stand. I step delicately over the puddle which recoils a bit and as I walk towards the door, a trail of splats follows me. My wet socks leave footprints across the cement and even after I strip myself completely down and wrap up in a thick blanket, some remnants of the dampness is with me. Even now, in the softness of my blanket, my toes and fingers are pruned and my guts still shiver. I pull the blanket tighter and wrap my arms around myself. Relax. Try to relax. Let your eyes sink back in their sockets. 

Sweet girl, it’s okay. It’s okay. Come here, it’s okay. 

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5 thoughts on “Sweet Girl

  1. Patricia Azlin

    You never cease to pull me away what ordinary, or even extraordinary, world is around me. In the moments of your stories, I’m away in another space and time, where entirely new and astonishing things occur. A fresh breath, taken deeply, held until it circulates fully, the I’m released, in that slow, magical exhale, leaving my insides rearranged and my face foggy with new weather. It’s wonderful. Thank you. And not to be amiss, in the most critical moments of life…Donkey Kisses…to all.

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  2. Pat Azlin

    I’m concerned that I can no longer find your page on Facebook.  I only get your posts thru WordPress.  Are you no longer a Facebook Page with lovely Donkey pictures?  I miss getting your donkey picture.  Sigh.  But I do respond via Word Press.  Please let me know how to get your Faceobok page if you still have one. Everything I searched, turned into “Documentary”  despite my careful correct spelling of “Donkumentary.”    Thanks!

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    1. Hi Pat — yes, I deleted the Facebook page last year because someone was stealing all of my photos/videos to try to impersonate me on their own Facebook page. I reported to Facebook multiple times but nothing ever happened. I keep thinking about getting back on Facebook, but I get nervous about dealing with all that nonsense again.

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      1. Patricia Azlin

        What you are doing right now is just fine. When there are bad people out there doing mean things, I imagine my donkeys finding them and kicking their hind ends (asses), enough to leave a brand that says “Idiot” in donkey hoof language. In fact, I have the makings for rubber stamps and will have to come up with something mildly appropriate. Mean while, keep being the real you and writing your magnificently healing blogs. …. Donkey Nuzzles. It gets no better than that.

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